“Be careful for what you wish!”
Sometimes during girl’s talk, I ask my friends: “What type of man do you want?” Many of them stammer, stutter and have no clear idea or deep thought about it. I usually get these kinds of responses: ”I just want a good man or a nice guy”. “I want a man who loves me”. “I want a man who has a lot of money”. “I want a man who is successful”. “I want to get married and have children”. “I want a man from my religion and/or from my ethnicity”...
Does it sound like you? The problem with those kinds of responses is that they are vague and unspecific. They do not truly convey what it is that you want. You’re obviously asking for “nothing and everything” at the same time, and who knows what will come with that. Have you ever heard “ Be careful for what you wish, for life is faithful to you and it will always give you what you ask for.”
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